Episode 152 | Flop Out & Flop Over
This week, the Biffs dive into Slate’s How To Do It, where the sex is messy, the signals are mixed, and every letter reads like it was written mid–panic spiral. We tackle: a husband rattled by a “joke” from his wife that lands way too close to home; a guy overwhelmed by his girlfriend’s marathon-level orgasm skills; and a couples’ night that detonates when one husband goes feral for the wrong person.
Stefani and Ray bring their best-friend logic and deeply unlicensed insight— with empathy and honesty. Please don’t cite us in therapy. [Apothic Pinot Noir, 2022]
Show Notes
Sources:
How To Do It: I Was Already Starting to Doubt My Wife’s Attraction to Me. Then She Made a “Joke” That Sent Shivers Down My Spine. (https://slate.com/advice/2025/10/wife-no-sex-advice-erectile-dysfunction-attraction.html)
How To Do It: My Girlfriend Has More Orgasms Than I Can Count. The Problem Is What Happens to Me. (https://slate.com/advice/2025/09/girlfriend-multi-orgasms-problem.html)
How To Do It: We Had a Wild Night With Another Married Couple. One Husband Went Feral for the Wrong Person. (https://slate.com/advice/2025/11/alcohol-husband-sex-drinking-group-wife-advice.html)
