Episode 19 | Seeked. Sought. Sucked.
The BiFFs talk sex this week with Little Village Mag's Dear Kiki. Stefani redefines pegging when a reader asks about the prospect of penetrating her male partner. A swinging couple wants to broach the topic of having a mutual friend join them in bed. A man with a monthly hall pass can't quit what he hit. [Mezza Di Mezzacorona Extra Dry Rosé]
Episode 18 | Wick My Moisture
The BiFFs take a stand against plastic surgery to please one's partner. A one night fling results in a pregnancy and a slew of unsupportive family members. Finally, should you drug your Mom, even when it's to her benefit, without her knowing? [White Haven 2021 Sauvignon Blanc]
Episode 17 | You Can’t Do It Alone
In the last episode in the Mental Health series, the BiFFs look back at how untreated mental health issues affected their families growing up, the influence that it has now being parents themselves, and how they plan to navigate that dynamic with their own children. [Sebastiani 2017 Chardonnay]
Episode 16 | The Forest of My Life
The BiFFs are reeling from a long, emotionally arduous day in the third episode of the mental health series. A series of events prior to recording guide an otherwise aloof pair in discussing their current mental states, their coping mechanisms, and how exhausting tending to your mental health can been. [Z Alexander Brown 2020 Sauvignon Blanc]
Episode 15 | My Perception of Normal
In the second of four episodes in the mental health series, the BiFFs delve deeper into their mental health struggles. They go over what their anxieties and depression look like, how they've been affected by them, and how that's played out in their relationships. [Clos du Gaimont 2019 Vouvray]
Episode 14 | You’re At Where You’re At & That’s Okay
May is Mental Health Awareness Month and Stefani and Ray kick off the month discussing their own personal mental health struggles. The first in a series of four episodes, the BiFFs get candid about their diagnosed conditions and their ever-evolving journeys in their quest to remove the stigma to promote safe and open discussions in the realm of mental health. [Simi 2019 Chardonnay]
Episode 13 | Swipe If You Want The Pipe
A story of internet love and first-time physical intimacy cause the BiFFs to relive a dual-cat-fishing. In spite of her orgasms, a question of impotency drives a woman to ask for outside help. A man's tryst with his best friends ex, blinds him to her personal agenda. Serve up a double sausage pizza, pour a glass of your favorite Ashanti, and join the BiFFs as they go through Thillist.com's In Bed with Gigi Engle. [Le Bocce 2016 Chianti Classico]
Episode 12 | That Really Googles My Grundle
How do you feel about your fiance seeing other naked bodies at a strip club? Does your sober sibling have the right to dictate how you live your life? Is the quality of your friendships dependent on the material things that you own? The BiFFs put their advice up against Elle Magazine's Ask Jean. #WhatTheElle [Casillero del Diablo 2019 Malbec]
Episode 11 | God Damn It, Kourtney
Could a couple of pounds really affect your love for- and future with- someone? The BiFFs, Stefani and Ray, get carried away when they stumble across the "Dear Sugars" advice column - a question involving love, self-sabotage, and a lack of physical attraction. This one hits home and spider-webs into more questions and other scenarios. [90+ Cellars Lot 174 2020 Alabariño]
Episode 10 | Libidinous Barbarians
The BiFFs get a little unruly this week. Thankfully, columnist Carolyn Hax is on her game. A year of couples counseling leaves partners in limbo and a new girlfriend takes herself off of the pedestal when she feels the ex-wife becomes the butt of the joke. Cleat up, BiFFs. [Drylands 2012 Sauvignon Blanc]
Episode 9 | Let Him In, Marjorie
The BiFFs get a little unruly this week. Thankfully, columnist Carolyn Hax is on her game. A year of couples counseling leaves partners in limbo and a new girlfriend takes herself off of the pedestal when she feels the ex-wife becomes the butt of the joke. Cleat up, BiFFs. [Drylands 2012 Sauvignon Blanc]
Episode 8 | Coffee Shop Karen
Miss Manners talks a "Karen" off the proverbial ledge over her plea for silence in a public venue, whilst Cheryl tries to stop a cemetery scavenger hunt. Sharon's hate for food service workers wraps up this week's topics. [Chateau Tour d'Auron 2016 Bordeaux]
Episode 7 | Closed Legs, Bro
Not even the wine could cushion the blows of Grandma's fictional tale of custodial, vehicular manslaughter, the plea for an open marriage because "I love her like a sister," or even a daughter's racist agenda against her step-mom. [Nobilo 2020 Sauvignon Blanc]
Episode 6 | Elbow Deep
In the midst of finding your people, one must let Facebook and let live. [Black Box Cabernet Sauvignon]
Episode 5 | One Toe One Hair
Key lime pie kinks meet tantalizing toe hairs, while the neighbors gander the garage grandstander. [Black Box Pinot Noir]
Episode 4 | Pink Cheeks
Lion in the streets, lamb in the sheets, and a self-knighted seven year old. [Bortoluzzi 2020 Pinot Grigio]
Episode 3 | Be A BiFF
The BiFFs make the rounds on the advice columns calling out a cheating husband and a Happy Dry Limp. [Freixenet Cava]
Episode 2 | Stefani’s Giant Mouth
Stefani and Ray make Sketchy Steve and Jaded Jane the focus of this week's discussions, with a bottle of wine guiding the discussion. [Aljibes 2018 Cabernet Franc]
Episode 1 | Boudoir
In the inaugural episode, Stefani & Ray (the BiFFs) open up a bottle of wine and discuss a 2014 publication of the Slate's Dear Prudence advice column. [Louis Jadot Macon-Villages 2020 Chardonnay]
