Episode 46 | You Already Came
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Episode 46 | You Already Came

In the last episode of 2022, the BiFFs get to the heart of family drama with Dear Abby’s Holiday advice throughout the years. [Absolut Peppar Bloody Mary]

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Episode 45 | We Put the “Ugh” in Thought
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Episode 45 | We Put the “Ugh” in Thought

The BiFFs help a spouse navigate the holidays with her own real-life Scrooge, weigh in on break-ups over the holiday season, and contemplate accepting gifts from those we perceive as less fortunate. [Marques de Caceres 2018 Garnacha]

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Episode 44 | Pass Me The Stiff Cheese
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Episode 44 | Pass Me The Stiff Cheese

It's bad advice all around this week. The BiFFs take on a Mom who wants to give her youngster a custom thong, a husband past his prime loves on his kiddos leaving his wife jealous, and a parent makes a big deal out of pronouns. [Antigal Uno 2018 Malbec]

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Episode 43 | Swing-Bangin' To Death
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Episode 43 | Swing-Bangin' To Death

A husband who won’t put out kills his wife’s vibe. Parents of forbidden lovers offer to end their love for them. Heather wants to blow her parent’s sexy swinging secret. [Valdo Rose Brut]

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Episode 42 | Momma Said Knock You Up
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Episode 42 | Momma Said Knock You Up

This week the BiFFs play poison control with E. Jean, and then join Prudie to intervene in racial stereotypes and dodge an exorcism. [Austerity 2017 Cabernet Sauvignon]

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Episode 41 | You Gon’ Give Thanks.
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Episode 41 | You Gon’ Give Thanks.

It’s Thanksgiving and the BiFFs are in the holiday spirit. Let’s serve up a side of unhelpful in-laws, with a little Black-Friday shopping poured over top. Who needs turkey when you can serve politics on a silver platter. Set a plate for Dad’s little secret. She’s coming to dinner, and she ain’t keeping quiet. [Sail to Trail 2016 Malbec]

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Episode 40 | Lordy, Lordy
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Episode 40 | Lordy, Lordy

The BiFFs celebrate forty episodes with an audience of family and friends. Listen on as they tackle Reddit's Am I The Assh*ole thread. Join Stefani, Ray, and friends as they address a deadbeat fiancé, a live-in mom’s disrespect, a house-stealing brother, and a woman who chooses her partner via credit check and bank info. [Sterling 2019 Chardonnay (White Sangria)]

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Episode 38 | Rectum Ralph
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Episode 38 | Rectum Ralph

Stefani and Ray turn to the Slate's "How to Do It" for content this week. Where does Chelsea put her Cherry Chapstick? Mother and son - a bond to be undone. How hot is your cousin? Hot enough to...? It ain't a wine night. [Chateau Bel Air 2019 Bordeaux and Bonfante & Chiarle 2015 Barolo]

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Episode 37 | I’ve Got A Sexy Sermon
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Episode 37 | I’ve Got A Sexy Sermon

This week, Stefani and Ray reflect on Little Village Mag's Dear Kiki. A boyfriend falls victim to his girlfriend's trap when he accepts her invitation to rifle through her text messages. Rambunctious sexual responses from her partner leave a girlfriend's neighbors flustered. A friendly female finds herself dodging the advances of older men. [Château La Commanderie du Bardelet 2018 Sauvignon Blanc]

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Episode 36 | Rock Hard Chonkers
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Episode 36 | Rock Hard Chonkers

Emily Yoffe of tried-and-true Dear Prudie fame takes center stage as the topic of conversation with Stefani and Ray. A live-in girlfriend takes it upon herself to surveil the kids. A husband's dead wife gets credit for making way for happiness in his new marriage. A trans woman keeps her transition a secret from her new partner. [Chateau de Roques 2015 Puisseguin St Emilion]

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Episode 35 | Gaybelline All Over Your Wedding
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Episode 35 | Gaybelline All Over Your Wedding

The BiFFs hit another Facebook Community this week with entries on AITA (Am I The A-Hole). One troll wonders if she can send her partner's child to her grandparents because she looks like his late wife. Another poster gets a worker fired for being too pretty at her wedding. The last question involves a boyfriend meeting up with his ex- in a vacant home and it's complicated. Who's the assh*le, now? [Cooper & Thief 2019 Red Blend]

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Episode 34 | Gee! I Sure Hope This Plumbing Works
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Episode 34 | Gee! I Sure Hope This Plumbing Works

The BiFFs jump around between advice columnists this week. Amy of Ask Amy publishes a question from someone who evokes talk of "girl code" when a guy connects with a friend of a woman who ghosted him. A Miss Manners writer questions the intentions of their partner's need to constantly correct them. Carolyn Hax's question deals with commitment when a writer dates in wait for the next best thing. [19-Crimes 2021 Sauvignon Blanc]

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Episode 33 | STFU & Be Happy
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Episode 33 | STFU & Be Happy

In this episode, Stefani & Ray circle back to classic columnist, Carolyn Hax. A reader once highly criticized is now lavishly praised by her parents and can't find middle ground. Another is too busy waiting for a relapse than enjoying her partner's victories. The final reader questions loyalty when asked to have her untruthful partner's back. [19-Crimes 2021 Shiraz]

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Episode 32 | Was Jesus Circumcised?
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Episode 32 | Was Jesus Circumcised?

This week, the BiFFs go back to basics with a 2010 Dear Abby column. A mature married man crushes on a younger colleague thirty-two years his junior. A husband who works part time asks his fully employed wife to take on a second job to secure their family financially. Mother dearest finds out daughter's boyfriend isn't Jewish because of what's in his pants. [19-Crimes 2020 Cabernet Sauvignon]

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Episode 31 | Hoot Nanny
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Episode 31 | Hoot Nanny

The BiFFs veer from the traditional columnists and turn to the Relationship Rules page on Facebook. A man becomes upset with his girlfriend when she refuses to give up her bank account info for a game console. A woman scorned kicks her beau to the curb and wants to rush the healing process. Finally, how do you deal when your husband laughs at you every time you try to initiate intimacy? [19 Crimes 2020 Cali Rose]

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Episode 30 | Should’ve Used That Labia
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Episode 30 | Should’ve Used That Labia

When Advice Goddess Amy Alkon speaks, the BiFFs suck up the scientific evidence. A business man’s penchant for dating models comes into question when it’s used as a measure for success. An independent individual insists on living their life while their needy counterpart sulks. A snooping boyfriend reads his girlfriend’s journal, realizing she has feelings for another man. [Ashbourne 2108 Sauvignon Blanc-Chardonnay Blend]

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Episode 29 | Duct Tape Under Her Boob
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Episode 29 | Duct Tape Under Her Boob

Freak in the sheets, #MeToo in the streets. Heather can’t see why her boyfriend needs to have sex in the dark. Peggy Sue and Lyle Jones wonder if their vanilla’s still hitting the spot. [Villate 2020 Prosecco Rosé]

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Episode 28 | Thanks for Cleaning Up After Me
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Episode 28 | Thanks for Cleaning Up After Me

This week the BiFFs travel through time. Ann Landers and her vintage posts commandeer this weeks’ topics. Stay-at-home-wife or sex worker? Sure. But what about cat-fish fiancé? [Cartlidge & Browne 2013 Chardonnay]

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Episode 27 | Miscumceptions
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Episode 27 | Miscumceptions

The BiFFs find a new column this week in Simply Oloni. The Rap Whisperer makes a cameo in Missionary. Herpes on deck. What now? And Young Wild & Free wonders if her previous zest for sex defines what’s next. [Josh Rose Prosecco]

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