On the week of our 50th episode, we’re talking through the classic Dear Abby columns. A man keeps his knowledge of his wife’s affair from her. A father and daughter, each struggling with addiction, wage a child-custody battle. A dormant STI turns a long marriage into a ‘whodunnit.’ [Luc Belaire Gold Champagne]

Recorded in 2022, this weeks episode is call-back to advice column classics, Abby and Annie. A step mom demands modest panties at her wedding. A woman finds her engagement ring distasteful. A person in recovery wants to stay on track by saying goodbye to her former love. Finally, a wife catches her husband talking to other women on Twitter. [Apothic Pinot Noir]

The BiFFs revisit the Slates “How To Do It” this week. High school sweethearts agree to open the relationship, but one loses their head. A wife shares her husband’s penile counterfeit with her bestie. And a girlfriend wants veto power when her man zeroes in on her friend. [Peirano Estates “The Immortal Zin” 2016 Zinfandel]

Happy 2023! The BiFFs kick off the New Year with a new column, Urban Diplomat - covering nude leaks on the internet, workplace porn, and bedside-rights. [Lilliano 2016 Chianti Classico]

In the last episode of 2022, the BiFFs get to the heart of family drama with Dear Abby’s Holiday advice throughout the years. [Absolut Peppar Bloody Mary]

The BiFFs help a spouse navigate the holidays with her own real-life Scrooge, weigh in on break-ups over the holiday season, and contemplate accepting gifts from those we perceive as less fortunate. [Marques de Caceres 2018 Garnacha]

It's bad advice all around this week. The BiFFs take on a Mom who wants to give her youngster a custom thong, a husband past his prime loves on his kiddos leaving his wife jealous, and a parent makes a big deal out of pronouns. [Antigal Uno 2018 Malbec]

A husband who won’t put out kills his wife’s vibe. Parents of forbidden lovers offer to end their love for them. Heather wants to blow her parent’s sexy swinging secret. [Valdo Rose Brut]

This week the BiFFs play poison control with E. Jean, and then join Prudie to intervene in racial stereotypes and dodge an exorcism. [Austerity 2017 Cabernet Sauvignon]

It’s Thanksgiving and the BiFFs are in the holiday spirit. Let’s serve up a side of unhelpful in-laws, with a little Black-Friday shopping poured over top. Who needs turkey when you can serve politics on a silver platter. Set a plate for Dad’s little secret. She’s coming to dinner, and she ain’t keeping quiet. [Sail to Trail 2016 Malbec]

The BiFFs celebrate forty episodes with an audience of family and friends. Listen on as they tackle Reddit's Am I The Assh*ole thread. Join Stefani, Ray, and friends as they address a deadbeat fiancé, a live-in mom’s disrespect, a house-stealing brother, and a woman who chooses her partner via credit check and bank info. [Sterling 2019 Chardonnay (White Sangria)]

The BiFFs warm up with Gawking Gary and Sterile Steve, who hasn't put out for ten years. Oh, bee-tee-dubz, your mother puts out. [Old Soul 2020 Chardonnay]

Stefani and Ray turn to the Slate's "How to Do It" for content this week. Where does Chelsea put her Cherry Chapstick? Mother and son - a bond to be undone. How hot is your cousin? Hot enough to...? It ain't a wine night. [Chateau Bel Air 2019 Bordeaux and Bonfante & Chiarle 2015 Barolo]

This week, Stefani and Ray reflect on Little Village Mag's Dear Kiki. A boyfriend falls victim to his girlfriend's trap when he accepts her invitation to rifle through her text messages. Rambunctious sexual responses from her partner leave a girlfriend's neighbors flustered. A friendly female finds herself dodging the advances of older men. [Château La Commanderie du Bardelet 2018 Sauvignon Blanc]

Emily Yoffe of tried-and-true Dear Prudie fame takes center stage as the topic of conversation with Stefani and Ray. A live-in girlfriend takes it upon herself to surveil the kids. A husband's dead wife gets credit for making way for happiness in his new marriage. A trans woman keeps her transition a secret from her new partner. [Chateau de Roques 2015 Puisseguin St Emilion]

The BiFFs hit another Facebook Community this week with entries on AITA (Am I The A-Hole). One troll wonders if she can send her partner's child to her grandparents because she looks like his late wife. Another poster gets a worker fired for being too pretty at her wedding. The last question involves a boyfriend meeting up with his ex- in a vacant home and it's complicated. Who's the assh*le, now? [Cooper & Thief 2019 Red Blend]

The BiFFs jump around between advice columnists this week. Amy of Ask Amy publishes a question from someone who evokes talk of "girl code" when a guy connects with a friend of a woman who ghosted him. A Miss Manners writer questions the intentions of their partner's need to constantly correct them. Carolyn Hax's question deals with commitment when a writer dates in wait for the next best thing. [19-Crimes 2021 Sauvignon Blanc]

In this episode, Stefani & Ray circle back to classic columnist, Carolyn Hax. A reader once highly criticized is now lavishly praised by her parents and can't find middle ground. Another is too busy waiting for a relapse than enjoying her partner's victories. The final reader questions loyalty when asked to have her untruthful partner's back. [19-Crimes 2021 Shiraz]

This week, the BiFFs go back to basics with a 2010 Dear Abby column. A mature married man crushes on a younger colleague thirty-two years his junior. A husband who works part time asks his fully employed wife to take on a second job to secure their family financially. Mother dearest finds out daughter's boyfriend isn't Jewish because of what's in his pants. [19-Crimes 2020 Cabernet Sauvignon]

The BiFFs veer from the traditional columnists and turn to the Relationship Rules page on Facebook. A man becomes upset with his girlfriend when she refuses to give up her bank account info for a game console. A woman scorned kicks her beau to the curb and wants to rush the healing process. Finally, how do you deal when your husband laughs at you every time you try to initiate intimacy? [19 Crimes 2020 Cali Rose]