The BiFFs go back to Ask Oloni of SimplyOloni.com this week. Topics include exposing an old flame to an STI in a non-consensual, monogamous relationship; convincing oneself to stay in a relationship because of your partner's mental health; apologizing to your man because of his insecurities; and what to do when oral sex isn't reciprocated. [A to Z Wineworks Bubbles Sparkling Rose]

This week, the BiFFs mix it up with Amy and Annie this episode, covering: an exes dark secret plaguing a Mom, a secret girl-friend of two years with a lover less than half his age, & a writer leaving an emotionally abusive relationship facing a moral obstacle. [VOGA Italia 2021 Pinot Grigio]

This week, the BiFFs take to the Slate's "How To Do It" column to discuss a woman treating her husband's affair as personal entertainment, the ethics of removing a condom mid-sex, and the type of porn you might need to be watching to prove that you're straight. [Château Recougne 2018 Bordeaux Supérieur]

Reflecting on the NY Times’, the Ethicist, the BiFFs try their hand at providing moral and ethical guidance regarding a mother’s confession of infidelity following her husband’s death, a writer who wonders if the murder she witnessed is canon, and the ethical responsibility to reveal that the death of a son was due to an overdose. [La Marca Prosecco]

The BiFFs talk through the guidance of Advice Goddess Amy Alkon. An unsupportive best friend isn’t your best friend. A husband trying to “show up” stirs up memories of hate and deceit. Paper thin walls allow a neighbor to eavesdrop on another’s verbal abuse. Girl’s night turns into a discussion about the value of “I’m sorry.” [Cloud No. 9 2017 Sauvignon Blanc]

The BiFFs take to Reddit’s Am I the Asshole (AITA) thread. Topics include wall demolishing tongs, taking away your maid of honor’s “plus-three,” dirty underwear in exchange for groceries, and cutting out on your son’s wedding to be with his ex-wife. [Bodega Garzon 2019 Cabernet Franc]

Workplace wet dreams. Kids like their father trigger mom. Crazy ex-girlfriend gets ballsy. It gets personal with Little Village Mag’s Dear Kiki. All that and more from the BiFFs in this week’s episode. [Mauro Molino 2020 Barbera d'Alba]

The BiFFs revisit the Urban Diplomat this week. One writer teeters between shame and falling from grace. A peeper complains that her neighbor is peeping. Lemonade and ball-hockey piss off an abutting neighbor. And do ear infections really put hair on your chest? [Bancroft Estates 2021 Sauvignon Blanc]

This week’s episode features Dear Kiki. The BiFFs discuss the dislike of receiving oral sex, a minor on Tinder pushing the legal limits with a twenty-three year old, and age as a factor in a relationship where the other half is barely legal. [Cap Royal 2019 Bordeaux Supérieur]

On the week of our 50th episode, we’re talking through the classic Dear Abby columns. A man keeps his knowledge of his wife’s affair from her. A father and daughter, each struggling with addiction, wage a child-custody battle. A dormant STI turns a long marriage into a ‘whodunnit.’ [Luc Belaire Gold Champagne]

Recorded in 2022, this weeks episode is call-back to advice column classics, Abby and Annie. A step mom demands modest panties at her wedding. A woman finds her engagement ring distasteful. A person in recovery wants to stay on track by saying goodbye to her former love. Finally, a wife catches her husband talking to other women on Twitter. [Apothic Pinot Noir]

The BiFFs revisit the Slates “How To Do It” this week. High school sweethearts agree to open the relationship, but one loses their head. A wife shares her husband’s penile counterfeit with her bestie. And a girlfriend wants veto power when her man zeroes in on her friend. [Peirano Estates “The Immortal Zin” 2016 Zinfandel]

Happy 2023! The BiFFs kick off the New Year with a new column, Urban Diplomat - covering nude leaks on the internet, workplace porn, and bedside-rights. [Lilliano 2016 Chianti Classico]

In the last episode of 2022, the BiFFs get to the heart of family drama with Dear Abby’s Holiday advice throughout the years. [Absolut Peppar Bloody Mary]

The BiFFs help a spouse navigate the holidays with her own real-life Scrooge, weigh in on break-ups over the holiday season, and contemplate accepting gifts from those we perceive as less fortunate. [Marques de Caceres 2018 Garnacha]

It's bad advice all around this week. The BiFFs take on a Mom who wants to give her youngster a custom thong, a husband past his prime loves on his kiddos leaving his wife jealous, and a parent makes a big deal out of pronouns. [Antigal Uno 2018 Malbec]

A husband who won’t put out kills his wife’s vibe. Parents of forbidden lovers offer to end their love for them. Heather wants to blow her parent’s sexy swinging secret. [Valdo Rose Brut]

This week the BiFFs play poison control with E. Jean, and then join Prudie to intervene in racial stereotypes and dodge an exorcism. [Austerity 2017 Cabernet Sauvignon]

It’s Thanksgiving and the BiFFs are in the holiday spirit. Let’s serve up a side of unhelpful in-laws, with a little Black-Friday shopping poured over top. Who needs turkey when you can serve politics on a silver platter. Set a plate for Dad’s little secret. She’s coming to dinner, and she ain’t keeping quiet. [Sail to Trail 2016 Malbec]

The BiFFs celebrate forty episodes with an audience of family and friends. Listen on as they tackle Reddit's Am I The Assh*ole thread. Join Stefani, Ray, and friends as they address a deadbeat fiancé, a live-in mom’s disrespect, a house-stealing brother, and a woman who chooses her partner via credit check and bank info. [Sterling 2019 Chardonnay (White Sangria)]