Tried and tested, the Slate's "How To Do It" column takes up the conversation between the BiFFs this week. A man discovers he likes to be watched when his neighbor goes looking for her missing cat. Another's constant attempts at consoling his wife makes for an alright-sex-life. A writer's budding new fetish is threatened by his very livelihood. And Stefani's sister has a question for the BiFFs. [Borrasca Prosecco Rosé]

This week, the BiFFs are joined by Philasophikal & J. Ecko, hosts of the Let’s Rap Podcast. The group has an open and honest conversation about the emotional dynamics of men and women ; how love is given, perceived, and received; and communicating specific needs to your partner . It’s a special episode you won’t want to miss. [Amici 2019 Cabernet Sauvignon]

This BiFFs are all over the relationship map this week with Sex Column (Metro.co.uk), including: the age old story of son meets wife, wife sleeps with step-dad; keeping the baby based on a ghosting baby daddy; a real life application of attachment theory; and a chauvinist man who thinks of his wife’s friend during sex. [Ruggero di Bardo 2019 Susumaniello]

The BiFFs love Meredith’s column so much, that it’s back to Love Letters this week with: a ‘tricked ya’ proposal, an immature silent-treatment-loving husband, and yearning for an ex- in the middle of a pregnancy. [Carnivore 2019 Cabernet Sauvignon]

This week, the BiFFs take on Meredith of the Boston Globe's, Love Letters. It's a series of relationship woes, including a man who hardly acknowledges his son, a wife whose husband's kissing skills are lacking, and fourth-time's-the-charm break-up remorse. [Aix 2021 Rosé]

Stefani & Ray talk Harriet Cole’s column, “Sense & Sensitivity.” A woman feels betrayed when her man reveals her deepest secret to his mother. A writer blames their mentor for missed opportunities. Another’s vulnerability with their partner leaves them yearning for a different reaction. A high school bully tries to make amends, but her now adult victim isn’t buying it. [Viña Las Perdices 2018 Cabernet Sauvignon]

The BiFFs take on Susan Writer’s “Ask Someone Else’s Mom” column this week. From a liquor motivated preteen and classic-construction-wrecking-millennials, to cautious parents and in-laws - don’t miss these interesting discussions. [Arrogant Frog ‘Lily Pad White’ 2019 Chardonnay]

The BiFFs go back to Ask Oloni of SimplyOloni.com this week. Topics include exposing an old flame to an STI in a non-consensual, monogamous relationship; convincing oneself to stay in a relationship because of your partner's mental health; apologizing to your man because of his insecurities; and what to do when oral sex isn't reciprocated. [A to Z Wineworks Bubbles Sparkling Rose]

This week, the BiFFs mix it up with Amy and Annie this episode, covering: an exes dark secret plaguing a Mom, a secret girl-friend of two years with a lover less than half his age, & a writer leaving an emotionally abusive relationship facing a moral obstacle. [VOGA Italia 2021 Pinot Grigio]

This week, the BiFFs take to the Slate's "How To Do It" column to discuss a woman treating her husband's affair as personal entertainment, the ethics of removing a condom mid-sex, and the type of porn you might need to be watching to prove that you're straight. [Château Recougne 2018 Bordeaux Supérieur]

Reflecting on the NY Times’, the Ethicist, the BiFFs try their hand at providing moral and ethical guidance regarding a mother’s confession of infidelity following her husband’s death, a writer who wonders if the murder she witnessed is canon, and the ethical responsibility to reveal that the death of a son was due to an overdose. [La Marca Prosecco]

The BiFFs talk through the guidance of Advice Goddess Amy Alkon. An unsupportive best friend isn’t your best friend. A husband trying to “show up” stirs up memories of hate and deceit. Paper thin walls allow a neighbor to eavesdrop on another’s verbal abuse. Girl’s night turns into a discussion about the value of “I’m sorry.” [Cloud No. 9 2017 Sauvignon Blanc]

The BiFFs take to Reddit’s Am I the Asshole (AITA) thread. Topics include wall demolishing tongs, taking away your maid of honor’s “plus-three,” dirty underwear in exchange for groceries, and cutting out on your son’s wedding to be with his ex-wife. [Bodega Garzon 2019 Cabernet Franc]

Workplace wet dreams. Kids like their father trigger mom. Crazy ex-girlfriend gets ballsy. It gets personal with Little Village Mag’s Dear Kiki. All that and more from the BiFFs in this week’s episode. [Mauro Molino 2020 Barbera d'Alba]

The BiFFs revisit the Urban Diplomat this week. One writer teeters between shame and falling from grace. A peeper complains that her neighbor is peeping. Lemonade and ball-hockey piss off an abutting neighbor. And do ear infections really put hair on your chest? [Bancroft Estates 2021 Sauvignon Blanc]

This week’s episode features Dear Kiki. The BiFFs discuss the dislike of receiving oral sex, a minor on Tinder pushing the legal limits with a twenty-three year old, and age as a factor in a relationship where the other half is barely legal. [Cap Royal 2019 Bordeaux Supérieur]

On the week of our 50th episode, we’re talking through the classic Dear Abby columns. A man keeps his knowledge of his wife’s affair from her. A father and daughter, each struggling with addiction, wage a child-custody battle. A dormant STI turns a long marriage into a ‘whodunnit.’ [Luc Belaire Gold Champagne]

Recorded in 2022, this weeks episode is call-back to advice column classics, Abby and Annie. A step mom demands modest panties at her wedding. A woman finds her engagement ring distasteful. A person in recovery wants to stay on track by saying goodbye to her former love. Finally, a wife catches her husband talking to other women on Twitter. [Apothic Pinot Noir]

The BiFFs revisit the Slates “How To Do It” this week. High school sweethearts agree to open the relationship, but one loses their head. A wife shares her husband’s penile counterfeit with her bestie. And a girlfriend wants veto power when her man zeroes in on her friend. [Peirano Estates “The Immortal Zin” 2016 Zinfandel]

Happy 2023! The BiFFs kick off the New Year with a new column, Urban Diplomat - covering nude leaks on the internet, workplace porn, and bedside-rights. [Lilliano 2016 Chianti Classico]